The Thing About Harry (2020) is a romantic comedy that explores friendship, identity, and unexpected love. The story follows Sam, a bright, organized young man whoโs still a bit wounded from past relationships. He reluctantly agrees to give a ride to Harry, his former high school jock nemesis. Sam assumes the worstโthat Harry is still arrogant and annoyingโbut the ride takes an unexpected turn when Harry reveals that he is pansexual and has changed a lot since high school. Their awkward road trip quickly becomes a surprising moment of connection.
As they reconnect over the years, Sam and Harryโs lives continue to intersect in spontaneous and emotional ways. From accidental meetings to intimate confessions, the two begin to build a friendship full of playful banter, mutual support, and subtle romantic tension. Sam struggles with his feelings and his fear of getting hurt again, while Harry begins to realize how much Sam has come to mean to him. Their bond deepens gradually, reflecting the beauty and complexity of slow-burn romance.
The film balances humor and heart with ease. It doesnโt rush the love story but allows it to grow naturally, through shared experiences, missed opportunities, and emotional honesty. Both Sam and Harry evolve throughout the filmโnot just in how they see each other, but in how they understand themselves. Their journey is one of healing, self-discovery, and the courage to take emotional risks. Moments of vulnerability are blended with laugh-out-loud scenes, giving the story an uplifting and relatable tone.
What sets the film apart is its focus on representation and sincerity. It places a queer love story at the center without relying on stereotypes or clichรฉs. Instead, it gives space for the characters to be flawed, funny, charming, and deeply human. Their relationship is treated with warmth and care, making their connection feel all the more real. The film celebrates love in its many formsโromantic, platonic, and self-loveโand invites the audience to believe in the magic of timing and emotional growth.
By the end, The Thing About Harry becomes more than just a romantic comedyโitโs a story about finding love where you least expect it, about letting go of assumptions, and about embracing the possibility that the person you once disliked might be exactly the one you need. With its heartfelt message and charming leads, the film is a sweet and modern addition to the world of LGBTQ+ storytelling.
